Comments on: I have sex, do drugs, have major emotions, failing school, im 15?

By: Andrew

Andrew — Wed, 10 Mar 2010 16:18:23 +0000

Restart your whole life. Hang around with the right people. School, family, and GOD come first. After your done with those you can do this but you need to graduate and try your best!

By: MKultra

MKultra — Wed, 10 Mar 2010 13:09:06 +0000

You obviously have a very dependant personality (not unusual or a weakness in any way).

You need at least a friend who will support you and that you can talk to regularly.

You’re very VERY young and haven’t even started on life yet, though it sounds like you’ve had a good try!

All I can say is think a little more of yourself and don’t define yourself by what you’ve done…

By: mafiax16

mafiax16 — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 21:27:27 +0000

you sounds about like me when i was 16 i was locked up on and off for 14 months for posession then when i was in got into fights it wasnt a good thing i woulda been inside them walls for 4 months but i wouldnt stay outa truoble.. drinking smoking fighting truency you name it i had done it. i have too done about every drug there is i had a pill habit from about 15 til 16 and a half. I mean pain pills too xanax i snorted everything including tlenol 2s. I to considered and attemted suicide then they sent me to a detox/dryout place and since then i have been doing very well i would suggest having a talk with your parents. I didnt want to talk to my dad eather but i didnt really have a choice my dad found me in the bathroom floor damn near dead i OD’d on CCC. So talk to your parents it may not be what you wanna do but itl help itl get better in time.

By: Paul

Paul — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 07:29:13 +0000

No matter what ending your life is not a good alternative. Trust me, I’ve been close to it myself. It sounds to me like you need to see a psychiatrist. Your parents probably are not on the same wavelength as you because your behavior is… well… troublesome. Otherwise, your behavior is troublesome because you don’t get along with your parents. Seek help, and you’ll be ok, and your parents will probably pay for it in the hopes that it will help you. They most likely just want to save you, not be troublesome to you. I did a lot of drugs in high school too, though I managed never to get locked up through good luck and good will. I would recommend trying to succeed in school, because without it you’ll be locked up or dependent on your parents the rest of your life. It sounds like you want to avoid these things. I know school sucks, but prison and living with your parents can’t be better. Please don’t end your life, there is always a better choice.

By: Victoria

Victoria — Mon, 08 Mar 2010 10:20:02 +0000

You just need to calm down. and if u are trying to quit these addictions then try a rehab center! a lot of teens have to go there now days =) i’m one of them i went for drinking! and suicide wont help anything.if u believe in god then pray about these things and it should all work out

By: XxHannaHxX

XxHannaHxX — Sun, 07 Mar 2010 06:54:00 +0000

well, first of all, try quitting one thing at a time

sex is not necessary, so DONT DO IT! easy enough right? if it’s really that hard then wow….

If you do get locked up again, that’s a good place to try to quit smoking and drugs

talk to your LOVED family members, tell them that it’s your life that’s in trouble

if you dont get locked up again ( which is a good thing ) then try some of those quit-smoking things

you’re most likely going to need help quitting the drug thing, so that might be why you need your sister ( which is who i understood as you only loved family member )

Once you’ve acomplished those, then try going back to school

for now, i know it sounds stupid, but i suggest dropping out to work on your other life-or-death problems like the drugs

Good luck!

Don’t give, suicide is never the way to go…

By: +bbam

+bbam — Sat, 06 Mar 2010 22:01:59 +0000

Okay settle down.
Im all of the above except drugs. I want to do them and people are telling me not too.
A guy who is like a brother to me is a lot worse than you at moment. He has quit drugs for over 8 weeks.
There are people out there that acre all you need to do is find them. I still love the first guy I had sex with and he used me and didnt talk to me for 6 months and then tried to do the same thing again when he started talking to me thats when I was 14 and now im 16.
Suicide may seem like the only way out…. I want to kill myself all the time.
But its NOT the answer!!!
You need to get your life together taking one step at a tme.
Talk to a counsellor they have really helped me with all my self harm that I do. I strongly suggest you do it.
Hope this helps good luck
if you ever wanna talk email me.

By: TJTB

TJTB — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 10:13:51 +0000

You might be self medicating for some simple chemical imbalance issues. Ask your parents to make an appoitment with a psychiatrist for you. You’re not crazy, but may just have depression but because you’re not on meds, you’ve been “medicating” with all these destructive things. Unfortunatley these self medications only add to your problems and if you wait long enough and do enough of these destructive “cures” you will get past the point of no return and lose your chance at life and happiness. Make an appointment and see a doc. The only thing between you and a normal healthy and happy life might be an anti-depressant.
Good for you for seeing a problem and seeking information. That shows that you’re self aware which is a HUGE step toward self fulfillment and finding your self.